
The ultimate guide to AEO: How to get ChatGPT to recommend your product | Ethan Smith (Graphite)
September 14, 2025 · 1 h 12 min
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Ethan Smith is the CEO of Graphite—the leading SEO growth agency—and my go-to expert on SEO. After 18 years of mastering traditional SEO, Ethan has been at the forefront of what is called AEO: answer engine optimization, or, more simply, getting your product to show up in ChatGPT/Claude/Gemini/Perplexity answers. He’s discovered that ChatGPT traffic converts six times better than Google search—and most companies are completely missing this opportunity.
In our conversation, we discuss:
1. His 7-step playbook to rank #1 in ChatGPT
2. Why ChatGPT traffic converts 6x better than Google
3. How early-stage startups can win at AEO immediately (unlike with SEO, which takes years)
4. The three tactics that actually work: landing pages, YouTube videos, and Reddit comments
5. Why help-center content can suddenly be your highest-ROI investment
6. The specific Reddit strategy that works (spoiler: be authentic)
7. Why AI-generated content doesn’t work
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Where to find Ethan Smith:
• Twitter: https://twitter.com/ethan_l_s
• LinkedIn: https://bit.ly/ethans-linkedin
• Graphite: https://graphite.io/
• Graphite Research Papers: https://bit.ly/graphite-five-percent
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In this episode, we cover:
() Welcome back, Ethan
() The changing landscape of SEO
() AEO (answer engine optimization) vs. GEO (generative engine optimization)
() The impact of AEO
() How early-stage startups can win at AEO
() The quality of AEO leads
() On-site vs. off-site traffic
() Reddit’s role in AEO and avoiding spam
() How AI models use citations (RAG)
() Key principles for winning at AEO
() Avoiding hyper-SEOed content, and the importance of originality
() Actionable AEO playbook: steps and experiments
() Tracking, measuring, and share of voice
() Adapting AEO for B2B, commerce, and early-stage companies
() Is letting AI index your content good?
() Experimentation, control groups, and measuring results
() The future of AEO, SEO, and search channels
() AI-generated content: what works and what doesn’t
() The dangers of infinite AI derivatives
() The future: convergence of LLMs and search
() Help-center optimization and the long tail
() Lightning round and final thoughts
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